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I'm a host, you're
a host Now, chances are good you're sharing the responsibilities with several other women. And for the first-time bridesmaid, you're probably thinking it would be polite to offer to host the party in your own home. In my experience, however, the bridesmaid with the largest and most adult home is generally the person who ought to "host" the shower. It is not a good idea to crowd twenty of the bride's attendees into a studio apartment. Curiously, bridesmaiding is a competitive sport, and frequently several bridesmaids will offer to open up their homes to an odd collection of the bride's family and coworkers. Count yourself lucky if the shower is held elsewhere; you'll save on clean up and potential random hazards (like someone's Aunt Becky eating her way through what you thought was your well hidden Haagen-Daz). Still, even if the actual party's taking place outside of your own humble abode, as a co-organizer of the event, you should consider yourself one of the hosts. And as a good host, each bridesmaid is responsible for helping to pay for the bridal shower. So reconcile yourself to the fact that as a bridesmaid your expense account needs to be expanded to include a party (sadly it also means that you have to help with set-up and clean up of the shower). Time now to get down to details. the lines of communication keep moseying: more tips this way ---------------------------> lounge . nourish . host . laze . home .
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