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The word "club" connotes something organized to me, like those extracurriculars everyone pads their resumes with in high school, so I suppose in my mind, my book club isn’t a club at all, more like a gathering. True, we meet on a more or less regular schedule – one meeting every two months, rotating the location around each of our houses – but what we do when we meet is actually somewhat hard to describe. There’s plenty of good wine and tasty snacks, maybe a gourmet pizza if people have come straight from work without having had dinner first. And there’s music – everything from classical and jazz to So-Cal ska, maybe mellow ambient or funky Japanese electronica (if it happens to be at my house, anyway). No one really leads the discussion, so it’s a wonder we ever get around to talking about the chosen book at all, but eventually, after catching up a bit on each other’s lives, someone starts in with the book talk, and the rest quickly jump in. Mostly, I suppose, our book club gatherings are half wine party, half salon, with a little bit of good ol’ girlie slumber party ambience thrown in for good measure, especially when the night gets long. how to start
a book club The best place to start is, of course, by asking your friends to see if any of them are actually interested. Even if most of your friends greet your query with a skeptical, "Ummm, gee, I don’t really have time for that right now," sort of excuse, you’re bound to turn up at least one or two buddies who are as excited about talking books as you are. And while 3 members don’t exactly a club make, you can tell your two interested friends to then ask their friends. And if they can each find 2 interested friends each, presto! You’re set – you’re ready to get reading. Remember that it’s best to get a group of people that represent a range of different backgrounds and viewpoints, to ensure nice, lively discussions, so don’t worry if you have to move beyond your usual social circle in order to find willing participants. Post a flyer at your favorite bookstore, coffeehouse, used CD store if need be. Half the fun of a book club is that it gives you a chance to make new friends. don't stop: there's so much more!
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