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I
lived on campus all during college, but school was always school, its
ivy-covered brick walls the place where I lived, played, and crammed for
exams each September through May, a transient roof over my head.
Home, on the other hand, was still that red-painted house on the
edges of suburban Boston, the place where I’d grown up.
Each autumn I eagerly packed up my belongings to move back to
school; each summer, I did the same to schlep my stuff back home. Home
wasn’t a matter of where I was happiest – I loved the freedom of
living on my own at school as much as I liked the security, cable
television and free home-cooked meals that came with summers spent back
at my parents’ place. School was great fun, but home -- that was
about roots, permanence, having a place I knew I could always return to.
Home
was an anchor, but in the post-college years, the tether grew longer and
longer. With a college degree and not a semblance of a clue concerning
what to do with it, I wandered the far reaches of the globe in a
dedicated effort to avoid making any real decisions about the future. I
lived in D.C. and Italy; I traveled in England, visited relatives in
Taiwan. I spent as much time away as I did at home, and my friends began
to begin their emails with, “So what country are you in today?”
But I always came home, eventually at least, to the shelter of
the pink-curtained bedroom with the Marimekko-flower print wallpaper, a
constant since my elementary school days, something familiar and
comforting to rely upon. At least until the travel itch re-surfaced and
I’d get antsy to hop on a plane again. Live
like a nomad for too long and it’s amazing how soon the excitement
wears off. During a year spent living in The Middle of Nowhere,
Australia, in a small town made tolerable only by the presence of my
boyfriend, I found myself afflicted with the first true bout of
homesickness I’d ever experienced in my entire life. In a cave-like
apartment furnished with mismatched folding chairs, and what turned out
to be a flea-ridden sofa, I’d lie down to sleep at night on a
makeshift Thermarest bed and cry till my eyes were swollen. ---------------------------> lounge . nourish . host . laze . home. |